Many years ago, I got into the habit of hurting myself. It wasn't something I did on purpose, but I just seemed to have new bruises, sprains, and strains every week. I've always been a relatively athletic person, but it seemed like I lost all coordination overnight.
During this time, my dad made a comment I didn't particularly appreciate. He said the reason I kept getting hurt was because I was just a "weekend athlete" who was trying to do too much and was deluding myself into thinking that I was still an athlete. Sports have been a part of my life and a part of me for as long as I can remember. I didn't like this comment and was determined to prove him wrong. Forget the fact that I worked in an office 8 to 5 every day and only got active during the weekend. Forget the fact that those weekends were when I managed to do something not so smart to end up with the bruises, sprains, and strains. I was an ATHLETE, not a WEEKEND ATHLETE!! So I kept doing what I was doing and kept getting hurt. Eventually I learned that my dad might have been right, maybe.
I have to laugh as I think about that conversation. At the time, I couldn't believe he would make such an insensitive comment. What I heard was that I was lazy, out of shape, (maybe) fat. What I now know he was saying was if I wanted to do things on the weekend, I needed to do something during the week or my body was simply going to break down. If I sat on my butt for 5 days a week, I couldn't go out and play a tennis tournament on Saturday and a soccer game on Sunday without there being some consequences.
So what have I learned in the many years since? Well, this weekend I have a tennis match Saturday morning and a soccer game Sunday evening. In order to prepare, I've done ..... absolutely nothing. Instead of sitting in an office, I spend most of my days during the week either in class or preparing for class. Looks like not much has changed. Luckily, I now play in over-30 leagues, so everyone else is a "weekend athlete" too. It's easier not to get hurt when you're playing with other people who are also out of shape and somewhat delusional. ;)
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