- Make new years resolutions.
My problem wasn't actually that I broke my resolutions, just that I didn't keep them. What's the difference? Well, I think that you can't actually break them if you don't remember what they were. I'd always start out good for the first day or two. If it was a really good year, may that would last for four days. But then the paper where I wrote them down would get thrown away while cleaning, or I really needed that extra room on the board where I posted them for something more important. For whatever reason, I always lost my resolutions and then I felt bad.
To fix this problem, I quit making resolutions. It was an easy fix. When someone asked me what my resolution for the new year was, I'd say something like, "To not make any resolutions." I think the last time I actually made new year's resolutions was about 10 years ago, maybe longer. That was one resolution I never had to keep track of and it worked great for me.
But this year, I've decided to break with tradition and actually make resolutions. I know I'm a few days late with this, but I've been having trouble coming up with anything. I don't want to make the typical "I'm going to lose 20 lbs" or "I'm going to save $1000" resolutions. While I should probably do both of these, I think this is what sets people (or at least me) up for failure (and feeling bad). So if anybody is reading this, what are your resolutions for the new year? I need to "borrow" some ideas. :)
I am actually a few years behind you...because this year I decided my resolution was to be resolutin FREE!! My reasoning might be different...I know I am not perfect, but I do like the "me" from 2010. Obviously, I have things I could improve on (who doesn't?)...but these things were there a week ago and will be there until I am ready to move past them :o) The only thing I can say that I am pushing these days is to eliminate fake people/relationships. I am a people pleaser and so even if someone is annoying me or doing me wrong, I try to please them. So, that is what my "resolution" is I guess!!
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